Sylvan Hills church of Christ

Fran Striker wrote, “I believe that to have a friend, a man must be one.”  His philosophy reflects the principle found in the Golden Rule: “However you want people to treat you, so treat them” (Matthew 7:12). 

Whatever you desire in life, the key to having it is to first provide it to others.  If you want respect, show it to others. Needing a better work ethic in the office? Demonstrate it clearly in your own example.  Tired of arguing with your family?  Explore the path of peace in times of conflict.  Desperately hoping for meaningful, strong friendships?  First step: be a stable friend to someone you know. 

Only when we become proactive, can we truly change our circumstances.   Waiting on the actions and attitudes of others before reciprocating will lead to frustration and resentment.  A life lived by reaction is full of insecurity.  Continually hoping people will read your mind is a hopeless endeavor.

However, the Lord knows your every need.  You can decide today to give the Lord control instead of abdicating it to others.  With His perfect knowledge and infinite ability, He can empower you to take charge and make positive changes.  Jesus Christ makes a difference in every situation!  With Him, tomorrow’s possibilities are unlimited!